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Contact Katie for any questions, comments, etc: webmaster@jadelafemme.com

I do not have a problem with people posting comments under anon., but I have to have word verification turned on due to too much spam. This blog is basically an abridged online diary, and I treat it as though it's another one of my paper journals. That means it is not written to provoke conversation, but I don't mind having people who understand the concept of "respect given is respect due" putting in their two cents.

At the end of the day, this blog is not here to make money or make anybody happy but me. People liking it and reading it (and dare I say impressed by it) is an added bonus.

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Sunday, November 16, 2014

Deep thoughts #hungergames edition

Wouldn't President Snow's granddaughter be thrown into the reaping when she turns 12, or does she get a get-out-of-jail-free card from the ages 12-18?

I find it insulting that Donald Sutherland insists that President Snow loves Katniss.  What the hell kind of logic is that?  As a big fan of his I admit I am very disappointed he sees it that way.  Men do not beat or kill their women because they love them, they do it because in their world of blood and roses, they grew up watching their father beat or murder their mother.  Violence and abuse is a cycle.  President Snow was one years old when  The Hunger Games began.  He grew up being forced to watch children die.  If he truly loved the people of Panem, he would have stopped the games dead in its tracks.

  You don't kill or harm the people you love.  You do not make speeches about how much you love and only want to protect your country and then commit genocide within it because a 16 year old girl made you look (rightfully so) like the piece of shit that you are for not breaking the cycle.


Watchin' #hungergames on ABC Family, havin' a larf

and looking around thehungergamesexplorer.com







Tuesday, November 11, 2014

OPERATION YELLOW RIBBON OF MARLTON, SOUTH JERSEY


"If you have someone who is Active Duty and deployed in the Middle East including Iraq, Afghanistan, and those deployed supporting Operation Enduring Freedom or Operation Inherent Resolve that you would like to receive some love and reminders from home in the form of a care package, please contact us!  We want to ship to our Americans deployed to the Middle East, no matter where they are from here at home!!! "

operationyellowribbonsj@gmail.com

packages/Cash donations: 


ITEMS NEEDED FOR CARE PACKAGES:

-tasty cakes
-girl scout cookies
-protein/energy powder
-protein/energy bars
-bagged tuna or chicken
-baby wipes or baby powder
-gum/candy
-pumpkin seeds/sunflower seeds
-rice crispy treats
-mio liquid water enhancer
-5 hour energy drink products
-crystal light/gatorade power mix
-granola/multi-grain bars
-breakfast bars
-mixed nuts (in canisters, bags, packets)
-tea bags
-deodorant
-dried fruit
-beef jerky/slim jim's
-coffee (in canisters/packets, NO K-cups
-crackers
-fruit cups (multi pack)
-pudding snack packs
-tooth brushes/tooth paste
-chapstick
-hand sanitizer
-Q-tips
-batteries (AA, AAA, C, D)
-bottled shampoo/conditioner
-pringles (canister or packets)


Sunday, November 9, 2014

The Girl on Fire

I finally have pictures of Lexi's Halloween costume!












#TuesdayChat - What Children Want for Christmas






Let's see....my kid wants a lifetime supply of Swedish Fish, a box of Welch's fruit snacks (in bulk), and an indoor swimming pool.  It's like Lisa on the first episode of the Simpson's: this is what Lexi wants every year and she tries her damndest to be good for Santa.  She doesn't know that I wouldn't let her have that much sugar because I'd rather not have to deal with paying for her type 2 diabetes medicine as the Christmas gift from me she'll get every year.

I DID get her one of these (she's Autistic and can't read yet so this isn't a spoiler alert):

Uncle Milton Star Planetarium


Uncle Milton's star planetarium



Sunday, November 2, 2014

Kevin Spacey

English: Kevin Spacey at the Eugene O'Neill Th...
English: Kevin Spacey at the Eugene O'Neill Theater Benefit for a Monte Cristo Award 2009 in Bridgewaters, South Street Seaport. (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

Repost from September 30, 2009





















I have been in love with Kevin Spacey ever since I first saw “The Usual Suspects”:

Verbal Kint:
Who is Keyser Soze? He is supposed to be Turkish. Some say his father was German. Nobody believed he was real. Nobody ever saw him or knew anybody that ever worked directly for him, but to hear Kobayashi tell it, anybody could have worked for Soze. You never knew. That was his power. The greatest trick the Devil ever pulled was convincing the world he didn’t exist. And like that, poof. He’s gone.





(Kevin showing his natural gifts for singing and impressions):






Kevin on IMDb: http://bit.ly/kspaceyIMDb

My “Favorite Actors” Helium article

I mean, the guy played Richard Osborn, the lawyer in Anais Nin’s diaries who wound up in an asylum, and Kevin’s from New Jersey. He’s a man after my own heart!



He and Benicio Del Toro (I just checked: I actually got his name right on the first try for once) were in “The Usual Suspects” and “Swimming with Sharks”: “Rex” (Benicio) gives the rundown of the office in “Swimming With Sharks”



Buddy:
“Look, I can appreciate this. I was young too, I felt just like you. Hated authority, hated all my bosses, thought they were full of shit. Look, it’s like they say, if you’re not a rebel by the age of 20, you got no heart, but if you haven’t turned establishment by 30, you’ve got no brains. Because there are no story-book romances, no fairy-tale endings. So before you run out and change the world, ask yourself, “What do you really want?” “
The “Swimming with Sharks” DVD has a great 10 year anniversary extra in the special features, along with another feature of of horror stories of being an assistant.


The Big Kahuna

I have never seen two people portray burnt-out salesmen better than Kevin Spacey and Danny DeVito in “The Big Kahuna”.
 What’s more, the contrast between the fresh-faced Christian “newbie” Bob (played by Peter Facinelli) and the biting cynicism of Larry Mann (Kevin Spacey) is positively electric.
Bob Walker: Throw me in the water and see if I can swim Larry Mann: I think you’re missing the point here Bob, we’re about to throw you off a cliff and see if you can fly!
In the meantime, Phil Cooper (Danny DeVito) plays it cool, creating a wonderful “good cop, bad cop” dynamic between the two.

 This is one of Danny DeVito's best performances: http://youtu.be/-PkOc-B64dY



I recently learned about Kevin's brother spilling the beans about their past, and while my own family’s past may not be as sordid as having my father (allegedly) be a member of the American Nazi Party, or the other horrific things that his brother said happened to himself, Kevin, and their sister, but I do know dysfunction in the family; very well. There is no such thing as a non-dysfunctional family. There never was. There are just those who choose to be openly dysfunctional and those who choose to hide or bury it like a stray dog burying a bone it found while rooting through the garbage. However, being a born-and-bred Jersey Girl, from a half-Polish household no less, I know the importance of family cohesiveness. Us Polaks take family very seriously. Hell, a lot of the Tri-State area is nothing more than the same group of families meeting and procreating for generations and generations on down the line. And while I absolutely do not condone adults actively seeking out teenagers, I think many Americans understand the waking coma of every day suburban bondage while being lulled to complacency by the the collective drone of all the little worker bees buzzing in the hives of the corporations across the country. That’s why I love being a blogger. I am my own boss, I am my own business. I am not busting my ass for some other pinhead’s end of the year bonus. And trust me when I say: you do not become a successful female entrepreneur by being a wimp.

UPDATED: 11/2/2014

Kevin is now the star of the Netflix original drama "House of Cards", based on the book by Michael Dobbs:



He is also in the video game "Call of Duty: Advanced Warfare"



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Halloween 2014


Lexi checking out the bat on one of her pumpkins







Tuesday, September 30, 2014

Yellow Flicker Beat

English: A map of the fictional nation of Pane...
English: A map of the fictional nation of Panem from Suzanne Collins' "The Hunger Games." (Photo credit: Wikipedia)