When I was in elementary school, I decided to be a pacifist. I would only ever attack someone if they attacked me first.
It's been working well for me, but I must admit it certain situations make it really hard for me not to open a can off whoop-ass.
Especially when I'm on a plane, or a waiting room and on a bus; basically any form of public transportation. I try to hide behind my book or magazine or try to look out my window the whole time. I try to hide myself from any fiasco that starts up, unless a good friend or family member is getting problems; then it's time to unleash the beast.
Another thing about me that I try to keep as hidden as much as I can is the fact that I am a Wiccan. My dad says he doesn't want me doing incantations, but I do them anyway while my parents aren't around. Nothing I do is evil, of course, because the first rule of Wicca is harm not, or it will come back to you three fold. I do not use any incantations or chants in a negative way. It's more like "Ok I need to cleanse the evil energy that's built up in my house and I need to get as much of it out as I can. So I'll burn some sage and wander around the house until every room has been cleansed.
I haven't started collecting candles and what not, because I'd have to keep them under lock and key. I guess I'll have to get a trunk for it. well, we do have storage bins I could hide.
I just want my craft to emanate calm, compassion, and comfort, since there is more than enough bad vibes out there already.
I'll probably start looking online for things I can start collecting,
